TEN WAYS TO START THE PASSION and PLEASE YOUR PARTNER!
Yes, these ideas will really ignite, or reignite the flame.
1. By the time most adults are fifty and over, the idea of date night may have taken a back seat. Don't let that
happen. Make sure you enjoy date nights every week together. Can't afford expensive fun date ideas? How about Dinner for just
the two of you with drippy candles on the dining table, soft music and lights. After dinner, bring champagne and strawberries
to your bedroom and watch a romantic movie, listen to sexy music, play a sexy game in bed. It will probably lead to some great
senior sex!
2. Instead of counting your partner's flaws, concentrate
on their good qualities. It works because you are not thinking about the negative. And feeling positively about your partner
is where romance really starts.
3. Old but effective. Re-ignite the passion by meeting your partner at a bar or cafe as if you were strangers. Strike
up a conversation using your best pick-up line and ask questions. Get to know them all over again....ask about their job,
where they grew up, dreams, aspirations etc.
4. This will
not "re-ignite" the flame, but doing it will certainly put it out! Never tell your partner she's "like her
mother". Don't compare her/him in a negative light to anyone in fact. Don't insult, belittle, or make fun of them. Bite
your lip, run to the bathroom or go outside but don't do it.
5.
Men, take her on a romantic weekend get-away. Depending on your budget
it can be a close little b and b or nice motel/hotel, or as far away as Venice Italy...one of the most romantic cities in the world. Dinner in Paris anyone?
(ok most of us don't have that kind of money, but just getting away from your routine will put a new spark in your relationship
and invite more senior sex)
6. Women are different than men.
Duh. They really do have to be in the mood so to speak most of the time (not always). Starting the love-making with
a flicker and building to a flame with an erotically or romantically charged movie will hit all the right buttons
because women tend to associate movies with their own situation (or fantacy). It could lead to more and longer passion after
the closing credits....
7. I wouldn't suggest this if
you've just started dating, but if you're already in a committed relationship, or married here is something you might try... Sexy
lingerie is always a hit with both men and women. But find out what the comfort level is with your partner first. You don't
want to buy her garter belts and leather when she is only comfortable with a sexy bra and panties, or a lacy teddy.
8. Discover some new hobbies together so you are spending time doing things you enjoy together. Make
some new friends for interesting conversation.
9. Guys, lose
those dirty jeans once in awhile and put on a clean shirt and pants. Even if it's just to the movies or out for
a burger and fries. It will make her feel like you appreciate her enough to dress up for her.
10. Spending time together is wonderful and part of a great relationship but spending time with your own friends
revitalizes you as a person so that when you come together again you're in a great mood.
I am assuming that you communicate well and that you are both interested in having sex....As you know, great
senior sex starts before you actually get into bed. Sex really does start
in the brain, and sometimes calculated preparation will get you thinking about the event, and in the mood, long before
the act. Try some of these tried and true ideas to reignite your passion in the bedroom.