ARTICLE ON HOW TO GET MORE PLEASURE ...BELOW
SEXUAL NO-NO'S
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Never have sex with your Ex
Hollywood
seems to think it is sexy and fun, but it is anything but for many reasons, not the least of which is when one of the two
gets confused, or hurt regarding the meaning of what you just did together.
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Never let a man (or woman) take and keep naked
photos of you.
I think this is obvious but we are always
hearing about naked photos appearing after a couple breaks up, or photos in emails being broadcast of someone’s intimate
body parts.
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Never reveal the real number of sexual partners you've had
There really isn't an upside to sharing this kind of information with your partner. .
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Never
talk about the things your previous lovers did in bed
Most
normal people don’t want to hear about their partner's former relationships or marriages.
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Never divulge all your fantasies
Keep a few fantasies to yourself. Your partner may not like what he or she hears about some
of your weird thoughts or feel threatened or grossed out by some of them.
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Never have sex without using a condom if you
aren’t in a monogamous relationship. Recent
studies show that seniors are passing around more of STD's than younger people. In fact, you should
each be tested for AIDs and other STSDs before you begin a sexual relationship to be safe.
Sexual Pleasure Tips...
Men, if you want better sex, take her on a romantic weekend get-away. Depending on your budget it
can be a close little b and b or nice motel/hotel, or as far away as Venice,
Italy...one of the most romantic cities
in the world. Dinner in Paris anyone? (ok most of us don't have that kind of money, but just getting away from your routine
will put a new spark in your relationship and invite more senior sex)
Women have to
be in the mood so to speak most of the time (not always) to have sex. Starting the love-making with a flicker and
building to a flame with a romantically charged movie will hit all the right buttons because women tend to associate
movies with their own situation (or fantasy). While many men hate romantic movies, there is something in it for you. It could
lead to more and longer passion after the closing credits....
There are three
main reasons that couples aren’t experiencing the intensity of sexual pleasure they want.
The
first is a no-brainer. We’re different! The sexual needs of men and women are unique to their gender which
means biology trumps whatever current pop-psychology or the media tries to tell us.
Communication is second. Many couples do
not have good communication skills.
The
third reason couples aren't getting the intense sexual pleasure they're looking for is that
most couples don’t share their desires about what they want in bed.
Be teachable. For more explicit ideas click here.
NEW SEX…THE
SAME OLD PARTNER
If you have been together for a long time, your sex
life may have become boring. You don't need a new partner to feel that zing. Just make a few changes and be open to
exploring new things.
Make a Date for Sex. The anticipation as the time gets closer will get your juices flowing. We’re
not talking missionary on the bed here. Revist something you haven’t done in a while like
doing it in the shower, or try something you’ve never done before. 
This one works too. No intercourse. You heard me. Tell your partner that intercourse
if off the table. Just deep kissing, and heavy petting. See what happens
when you can’t have it!
Game Playing and role playing. Spice is the Fantasy of Life. Talking about
your favorite fantasies can exciting but never tell your inner most thoughts, or talk about some of the
best sex you and your partner have had in the past… adding that
sense of adventure is what will make your sex life feel new again.
Always
do the same positions? Try a new one. Always do it in bed the same day, same time? Mix it up a little. You
don’t have to always make monumental changes. Even small ones can spice things up.
Now that you aren’t hampered by your kids, try having sex in another part of the house, skinny
dip in your pool, go to a motel for the evening. Feeling naughty is nice!
