Why some younger women will date older men, how to find younger women and how older men win their affection.

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Date Younger Women....the Biology
 
Does Mother nature really know best? ....Should older men and younger women be marrying and conceiving children? 
Here are the facts:
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Older men younger women have been given a wink and a nod for years by men in general. But there are some problems with that pairing. 
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Older men have a difficult time to naturally engage in sex because they can't get, or hold a firm enough erection, which should be the first indication that mother nature doesn't want them to procreate.  
 
Not only do men become less fecund as they age, but their fertility begins to decline relatively early — around age 24, six years or so before women's. Big news to men. Interestingly,  infertility and birth defects have always been seen as a female, and not a male problem. They were wrong.
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The latest studies now show higher rates of birth defects including autism, schizophrenia and Down syndrome in children born to older men.  
 
A woman's sexual peak hits around age 35-40. Any man who wants a real cougar in bed should be looking... not for women in their twenties, but women in their mid 30's to 40's. But her fertility too weakens around 35.  Do women who date younger men have the right idea after all?   
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Over the past decade older men seem to have been trying to relive their youth by starting second families with younger women, but is that a good idea? Along with other studies showing the notable increase of many other birth defects when older men procreate, a recent paper by researchers at the Karolinska Institute in Sweden found that the risk of bipolar disorder in children increased as the age of the father increased too, particularly in children born to men 50 plus. 
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And what about the difficulty in simply getting pregnant ? It used to be that infertility was also blamed on the woman no matter what her age. Previously, older men younger women pairing seemed a good pretext for men looking to change their wives for younger women. "I want more children," appeared to be a valid reason. And science seemed to support him decades ago because the genesis of that archaic bias was rooted in what we knew about the biology of the sexes at the time. Women are born with a determined amount of eggs — about a million. And the healthiest egges are ovulated first.
 
They concluded men always had "fresh sperm" that was produced about every 90 days, therefore a man's sperm was
better quality.  Back then, we were told there wasn’t any difference between a younger man’s sperm and an old man’s sperm. (We've all heard the story about a 90 year old man who had a baby somewhere? ...Or did she have a young man on the side? We'll never know.)  Regardless, the newest research suggests otherwise. As men age, their sperm changes and so does the DNA in the sperm. Not the news men wanted to hear.

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A French study published in the current issue of Reproductive BioMedicine Online found that the father's age had as much effect as the mother's on rates of pregnancy and miscarriage — the older either parent was, the less likely they were to get pregnant,  more likely to miscarry and have children with birth defects.
 
Getting pregnant also takes much longer when either partner is 5 years older or more.

Sorry guys, I'm just the messenger. Men may continue to fantacize about older men younger women but the facts don't support that union. Although “fresh” sperm is made about every 90 days even from an older man, the cells that make sperm are subject to increasing DNA mutations as men age, affecting the quality of the sperm they produce. And that degeneration and mutating DNA in the sperm leads to more birth defects and medical problems.

In another study in Sweden, published in the Archives of General Psychiatry, researchers found that risk of developing bipolar disorder began to increase in children born to older men .... around age 40. And it increases substantially as they age which suggests a strong genetic component. 
 
 
The new research shows it's time that men in the mid-30s realize that they share the same "ticking clock" pressure to "make a baby" as women.

Mother nature knows best. Regardless what men want to believe....the older man younger woman scenario doesn't play out for conceiving children or sexual compatibility. (Although that little blue pill certainly has thrown a curve ball and made older men think it's ok to have children)

And cougars.... older women younger men are a better match in the bedroom as far as sexual compatibility peaks, however the best match for conceiving children is still when both people are about the same child-bearing age.

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DATING OLDER MEN...Who does it and Why?
 
HOW AN OLDER MAN CAN ATTRACT AND DATE YOUNGER WOMEN
 
First, younger women aren't from another planet. Don't be afraid of them. They are, however different from more mature women so you need to approach them differently and expect different things from them.
Younger women love drama for example. They freak out at some of the silliest of things, and when they do you have to keep calm and not let their outbursts get to you. Offer stability instead of reacting to their tantrums and over-reactions to life's little challenges.
 
Younger women are just that...young. And that means they will be doing a lot of changing over a few years. Let them explore, encourage growth and expect that she will be with someone else in a few years because she has grown and...changed.
 
When you meet a younger woman, don't act like what they call a creepy old geezer. Don't talk either too much or too little. Don't stare at them and tell them how beautiful you think they are. Don't stammer or ask stupid questions and act like some dumb school boy. Don't chase her or she might run for the hills and you'll never catch her.
 
When you do catch her attention....don't move quickly. It will scare her off and you will be just another creepy old geezer to her. Most younger women, no matter what we want to think,  do not like older men to begin with, so be careful to test the waters before you look like a perv. Use your age to your advantage. That means, you are mature enough not to let your hormones run amuck. Be classy.
 
Once you are dating, younger women like older men who make the rules and take charge. If you let her be the 'boss' she will think you are a wuss and run circles around you thinking she can make you do anything she wants.
 
If you find younger women who are very attractive chances are that they get hit on A LOT. To differentiate yourself from the competition, don't move quickly, and treat her like that smart-aleck little sister you may have had growing up. Tease her, call her on it when she acts immature. It will make her mad....but it will also keep you in her thoughts and maybe even make her want to please you.
 
While some younger women do not appreciate chivalry, many do. Those who don't are most likely radical feminists. Open the car door for her, pull out her chair etc. Things many younger men don't often do.
 
Younger women tend to think they are mature and that's why they want to date older men. The truth is that maturity only comes with age. That said, younger women may have a tendency to want to get too close too fast because they are more insecure. To avoid this, see her only once a week, even if you want to see her every day. Give yourself time to get to know her so you don't trigger clinginess. 
 
If you start a relationship with a younger woman, do NOT interfere with her life. (I'm talking about women in their twenties to early thirties here) Never call her at work, don't show up unexpectedly, don't be jealous of her friends. 
 
 
 
 

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WHY YOUNGER WOMEN DATE OLDER MEN
by Candice Herman
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The first thing you need to do is ask yourself why you want to date or marry a younger woman. Be honest. As long as you are honest with your reasons for wanting to date or marry a younger woman, and you are willing to accept her reasons for being with you things will go a lot smoother and you will be able to accept the outcome. I have known and interviewed many older men younger women couples and some can be successful but there are inherent problems with the pairing that must be acknowldeged. And most of these relationships end after a few years. 
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About now you're asking yourself, why do some younger women date older men? First, most normal women are not going to want an older man. And there are very good reasons for her to want to be with someone closer to her age. They are more sexually compatible as a couple, and if they are in child-bearing years instincts tell women that a younger man will give them healthier children. Men and women closer in age also have a lot more in common, including the age of their friends. They have similar wants and needs.
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So why are some women dating and in some cases marrying older men? The obvious reasons are money, power, fame and daddy issues. But those aren't the only reasons. Some women have also been hurt by a younger man and feel that by dating or marrying an older man she has more control over the relationship. She feels the man will treat her well because he is flattered that a younger woman has chosen him. And she's right in many cases. I've seen men drive to the gas station to put gas in the younger wife's car and go back to get his own car before leaving for work. The same man admitted he would never have done something like that for his former wife. These women can feel more secure knowing that he won't leave her too for a younger woman because SHE IS the younger woman.
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Younger women have often said that younger men want too much sex and older men aren't as demanding because they can't have sex very often. At least until viagra hit the market, it seemed to work for them. Now, the women complain older men want sex too often too. Of course, they may not share their true feelings with their older guy but they shared it with me.
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I've also interviewed several women who say being married to an older man is the most difficult job in the world. The women married for financial security in these cases, and found it difficult being his with older friends (their younger friends didn't want to hang out with people that much older so they rarely saw them), didn't like the looks they got when they were out together, didn't like having sex with men who had sagging skin and were balding, and it was hard maintaining an exra-marital affair with a younger man. They did like the financial security and the fact that a rich powerful man could open many doors for her, but some wondered if it was worth it.
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Many women have daddy issues, and some subconsciously date and marry older men looking for the attention they never received from their fathers.
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Some women date older men because it makes them feel more mature to be with someone older. If that's the reason, they don't understand that it takes years of life to gain the maturity they are trying to get through osmosis by dating an older man. But they continue to try and fool themselves nonetheless.
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This pairing is usually brief, but pleasurable for the man as long as he doesn't trick himself into thinking the relationship is "normal". Women who are normal, or not looking for a sugar daddy date and marry men close to their own age.
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Some men, like a Southern California photographer I know, date and marry younger women because they need to control the woman. As long as she remains submissive, this man will be content. When she becomes more secure and mature, problems will arise


 Most young women are not interested in older men, but there are enough out there that if you want to date, have sex with, or marry younger women it could be worth your while make the attempt to date younger women